Hi dearest friends and I mean it even what we have in common is not a very nice experienses.
My father (crazy Italian which I look as a copy of him) gave me the best advice I have ever encountered. When he noticed that I drink a lot, he stopped me and said "If you do not love yourself, you will never be able to love somebody else. if you do not take good care of yourself the others which they might try to take care of you, one day they will give up and then who will take care of you?. you have to care about yourself because you is what you have whatever matters". I repeat that to myself almost everyday specially when I wake up.
So, start loving yourself no matter what you think of yourself because nobody is perfect. I am a smoker! this is my opinion about ME and I stick with it.