Well i just have to tell you off as i did. a little story...........

when i first started bpdworld i had my name on the forums as bpdworld but and here goes i got told off for it ((((i mean me getting told off oh my god)))) what they said was it was intimidating or something, not very personal and scary and so on (i lost my hearing aid after this stage) so they told me to change it to Joshua (i did more fool me)

the point, i think u shud change ur name to Jamie as it wud make me feel better (ha ha ha)

change change change LOL!!

one waits to hear from one on this life threatning situation LOL. take care Jamie and smile.