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numb


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Well the calls have started to come through from family members on behalf of her.  Just as I thought she has them all singing and dancing for her.  I feel so so sick just put phone down on someone who doesn't deserve to be involved in this mess.


 


I am scared that sometime soon she will appear at my home


The pain in my body is so bad today I have tried to sleep but every time I close my eyes she is there she is in the room with me now her screaming shouting ab***ng.  I so want to be able to be strong but my body won't allow me my head is full of too much.  Does this ever end?


I have no strength to fight even though I have not spoken to her or seen her she is winning the game again and I can't stop her.


Sorry folks but I am again asking for support, because I don't think I am going to make the next few days just feel I have reached breaking point.


Numb



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jane


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im so sorry numb, this must be so hard for you, i dont think i would cope very well in the same position.


is there any way you can go away for a few days, away from the pressure of family. are they actually aware of the history or are they blindly wading in without any knowledge. if they dont know is there any family member you can confide in. it must be so difficult, and im not sure i have any practical advice to offer. just know i am here to talk as you make your way through this.


you can do it. is there anyone at all that knows, that could stay with you, or you stay with them until its all over and then at least you are not completely alone through this.


when my sister informed my dad we were aware of things, it was completely against my wishes, but she said she had to do it, so she wrote him a letter, and when she posted it, we went away together for a couple of days incase he turned up on our doorsteps. so yes i am very good at running from it. if you cant deal with it you need to make some arrangements to make yourself safe.


take care, stay safe and know you will be heard and supported here


jane


 



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segelov


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Hello numb


I am so sorry that you are feeling so low, and are so afraid. Are you somewhere safe? that has to be your first priority, to look after you.


So sorry that I can offer you nothing but my thoughts and a virtual presence.  Keep posting, keep telling us how you are doing.


Take every care of yourself


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Frog


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OH Numb,


let me at her with a base ball bat!, sorry I just hate it when this happens, everyone believes the bad one! Numb I am so sorry, Do you have any friends you could stay with, or who could stay with you. What about chaging your phone number.


Numb you will be ok, this is a really really bad time but you will get through it, you got through the worset years ago, you don't need to go through that again.


Don't now if this helps, but here for you


Frog



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