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liz


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Hey where is Everyone


It seems like it's been a quiet weekend on here.  Like no-one has come out to play.  Sorry, that's obviously my  inner child having a dig.  Praps I just need to get a life.....


Sunday night this side of the pond and I could just use a hug or ten!  Tell me when you get sick of me and I'll go away. 


liz x 



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I AM APOLOGISING TO EVERYONE FOR EVER STARTING THIS TOPIC.....


I feel so cross with myself.  With hindsight (what a marvellous thing!) I'm not surprised no-one wanted to reply.  If I'd have looked properly I would have seen that loads of people have posted stuff and my naff comments would have appeared insensitive to ther people.  I AM TRULY SORRY. 


And, if I had really thought about it I guess there are a good number of members who live out of the uk and therefore there will be the small thing of time differences. 


So, if I have upset people with my very naff posting then I sincerely apologise.  Everybody's posts are important and my selfishness got in the way.  I am beginning to struggle big time with my therapist's absence and maybe my inner child bit is hitting out.  


I feel kind of abandoned by him - daft though that sounds.  Actually it isn't daft is it.  Just a kind of replay from the past.  I''ve gone and started to trust him and feel safe with him and then he goes and has to have a holiday!  And though as an adult I know he will come back, my child part of me isn't so sure. 


In future I shall engage brain before posting. 


liz x 



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(((((((((((((((liz)))))))))))))))))))


5 hrs time dif. over herehalf the time I'm postin' at 4:30 am(can't sleep all night)..it's 9:30am by you. Might sound a bit nuts at that hour


Just a heads up to everyone:; My Therapist will be away for 3 weeks after next week, BATTEN DOWN THE HATCHES!


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hi liz,


hang in there, your therapist will be back very soon now. youve done great and noone is sick of you. if you cant have a rant here than where can you. (jamie what about a special rant section?) noone is going to abandon you. unfortunately my computer got sick and ive been at work, so its been difficult to get on. hopefully its up and running again and i will be on daily as my shifts from today leave me some time free in the mornings.


keep going and dont beat yourself up about your post, ive often posted and wished there was a bring that damn post back off the board button!


we are here for you.


jane



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liz


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Thanks Jane for your understanding.  


Abandonment is a big issue for me and I just got it all out of proportion again. 


The bit about having a 'Return the naff Posting' sounds like a very good idea!  I guess we've maybe all been there, similarly the need to rant  a bit too.


There's the bit of me that finds it hard that people aren't going to abandon me.  Whilst they may not not always agree and that's life  I find it still very hard to accept that people will still consider me an ok sort of person.  


Anyway, I'm glad your computer is better again and that you will have time in between work. 


Have a good day and thank you again cos I felt heard.


liz x



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