AM I REALLY NOTHING

leckie · Senior Member

AM I REALLY NOTHING

michelle · Senior Member

Leckie

It isn't people don't care but so many people have so many issues there dealing with in there own life.I also go to another site for bipolar and there are people who feel the same way you do.And they also feel they have to keep there bipolar a secret.So see there are people who are suffering also and you are not aware of it.

Thats why we have therapist we pay them to listen.Thats why I go so I do not burden other people with my problems.I also have a T who really cares.

Have you ever noticed people like to talk about there selves. We all do.

Michelle

segelov · Experienced Member

Hello Leckie

You do exist, people do hear you, you are important, and yes you do count, maybe there are times when we each are absorbed in our own hurts it is not always easy to reach out. Maybe listening is one of those hard things to do, and maybe to listen properly is a thing that we have to train ourselves to do, so many people go and get therapy of one sort or another.

Sometimes feel very alone because I know no one else that has been through all that I have - I now know people on here that have gone through some of the things that I have experienced, there are no help groups for some of my other issues/problems. So I take what I can from where I can, and I hope that I give what I can where I can.

And what you are feeling is so what I have felt - the times that I have shouted for help and recognition of my pain, and it appears as if no-one is hearing.

Please do not think that no-one is listening.

Take care of yourself

Raindancer · Veteran Member

Hi Leckie,

I dont think your expecting too much. So often people 'listen' but they dont hear what is actually being said (and im not talking about the people here at Havoca) just people in general.

You do count

Take care, Raindancer

hazel · Veteran Member

hi leckie,

are you kidding? you're not nothing! it's lonely at the top sometimes maybe thats why people aren't hearing you. you've got the courage to talk about things that some people cant face but that's not a failing in you. sounds to me like you've been through alot but you're still here and you're still fighting, that's not nothing, that's remarkable.

bug hug to you Hazel x