Why am i here?What is the point?* May trigger*

margaret · Veteran Member

Frog · Experienced Member

Hi Margaret,

I am sorry your going through such a awful time, I don't know what to say to help but I will think on it.

I work in a place full of men and constantly get all the usall comments, and it drives me mad, and I can underrstand aliitle how you may feel. but I don't kniw what to suggest. But you are a person, not an object. just keep telling yourself that. I just wanted to reply and say someone is here lisinting.

Take care be kind to yourself

Frog

jane · Experienced Member

margaret,

this is a hard one, i needed to reply, but now, im going to say things that i know i should be telling myself.

why are any of us here, non survivors also, no answer to that one. but we are here and you are here, there are things out there that are great, you are special, there is every point to you being here.

you were the first person to post a reply to my first post and that meant so much to me, you helped, you cared, that is not something everyone can say.

as for purifying yourself, purify what! you ARE NOT unclean, there is nothing that needs purification. something happened that was very very bad, but you are the brightest light out of it as you made it through, you survived something noone wants to have to say they survived. but you did, you are clean and bright and have humanity, that is very very special. believe in yourself as i do in you.

take special care of you, stay safe

in my thoughts

jane