Neglect

HAVOCA · HAVOCA

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ouchzone · ouchzone

I've just posted in mental health and realised I need to say this here. This is really painful. Here goes. My abusive parent had poor physical and mental health. She also used the threat of hospital to shut me up about the abuse and neglect. She manipulated us into pretending we didn't get hurt by her h...

segelov · segelov

deleted -- Edited by segelov at 21:30, 2004-10-13

claudine · claudine

Hey guys, I'm just acknowledging some major abandonment issues. Can some one throw me a smiley or something? Although the initial response to revealing my abuse to family seemed to garner support, things have changed. I feel like I have no one now. It's not really a shock, like I thought it...

ouchzone · ouchzone

Children were not supposed to talk to adults. It wasn’t right. Girls were not good enough for boys. My brother was ashamed of me. He went off with his cousins and had fun which he never tired of talking about. There were no girls. And that’s the way my mother wanted it. She despised girls. She frowned when...

Growing roots and wings · Growing roots and wings

I heard several people in another post talk about the concept of turning the abuse inwards, and harming ones self in various ways. Do you think that problems with self-care could be a variation of that - neglect turned inwards?

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	STICKY: ALL TO READ - New Forum (Preview) Great news - Josh has designed and helped us build a much better forum. It is now open and we actively encourage you all to join by following the link below and registering. This forum will remain open forever as reference, and you can easily cut and paste any messages you would like to keep over...	HAVOCA	0	826	Oct 23, 2004 by HAVOCA
	empathy block (Preview) I've just posted in mental health and realised I need to say this here. This is really painful. Here goes. My abusive parent had poor physical and mental health. She also used the threat of hospital to shut me up about the abuse and neglect. She manipulated us into pretending we didn't get hurt by her h...	ouchzone	4	685	Oct 21, 2004 by Raindancer
	Mothering (Preview) deleted -- Edited by segelov at 21:30, 2004-10-13	segelov	8	917	Oct 15, 2004 by segelov
	Abandonment (Preview) Hey guys, I'm just acknowledging some major abandonment issues. Can some one throw me a smiley or something? Although the initial response to revealing my abuse to family seemed to garner support, things have changed. I feel like I have no one now. It's not really a shock, like I thought it...	claudine	5	1010	Oct 4, 2004 by claudine
	Beyond the pain threshold (Preview) Children were not supposed to talk to adults. It wasn’t right. Girls were not good enough for boys. My brother was ashamed of me. He went off with his cousins and had fun which he never tired of talking about. There were no girls. And that’s the way my mother wanted it. She despised girls. She frowned when...	ouchzone	4	766	Sep 29, 2004 by michelle
	Self-harm, self-neglect (Preview) I heard several people in another post talk about the concept of turning the abuse inwards, and harming ones self in various ways. Do you think that problems with self-care could be a variation of that - neglect turned inwards?	Growing roots and wings	1	779	Sep 25, 2004 by ouchzone
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